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I just joined last night. I sent a short message to someone. Today he went on to tell me we were meant to meet. Conversation goes on to let's talk outside of this platform. Then he asked my background. Shouldn't he have already read that? Before Iwas could say Hispanic he blocked me. Wow, never thought I would get shut down because of my race.. It's hard enough on me already. But I am a Strong Hispanic Woman! His Loss...

I'm Lula and I am new to this site- I won't say that I'm in search of anything I just hope that I'm blessed with meeting and conversing with some wonderful individuals- we were all brought here for a reason rather we agree with the reason or not but I will say while I'm still on this earth I will make the reason worth my while- I'm a newly diagnosed woman who is still battling with the thought but each day it gets easier- hello to all and I look for to speaking with whomever

   I'm new both to this site and herpes. I got this gift that keeps on giving from my boyfriend, who after three years, decided it was time for us to ditch the condoms. After my first outbreak a few weeks ago, he admitted to being the source and then abruptly dumped me exclaiming he "didn't want to cause me anymore pain and it was best that we just be friends." I haven't told anyone else, partially out of fear, partially because I feel that if I'm not sleeping with them, then it's none of their damn business.  

  I've always been in monogamous relationships, always played it safe, never once had a one-night stand for fear of something like this happening to me.  Little did I know that the person closest to my heart would hurt me the most. I've never felt so isolated and alone in my life.

Hi...I am new to the site, about a week, this is my very first blog post... I like the site, it's great, I'm hoping I'll have some luck and find someone on here, however, I am frustrated that there are only a couple of members even remotely close to where I live, hopefully this will change eventually.... So, what I don't like about it is it is supposed to be a "Christian Dating Site", well, I don't know what everyone else thinks but when I see the photos that both women and men are posting of themselves I am thoroughly disgusted at the flauntiness of the women,e too revealing of clothing, self focused on their vanity and their body parts, I am no prude but, if you consider yourself a "woman of God" then why do you do this?? I take my faith seriously, I am not a holy roller, I am not perfect but I live my life as a true Christian woman of faith and I have standards to uphold, mainly for God but for myself as well, I have to hold myself accountable for my actions, my speech, etc, I am not desperate and I am not fake, I am real and I won't lower my standards to meet someone, I see it as if God intends for me to have someone in my life then it will happen, on God's terms and timeline, if not, then it wasn't meant to be for me. As far as the men go, I see some profile pictures that would be considered inappropriate, a few that are actually bordering on evil, what is up with that??? Gals and Guys, if you are not seeking God and are only out to find someone to play games, have sex, party hardy, then you are on the WRONG site!!! The first person to message me started playing games through chat, I have been through that on other non-christian sites in the past, it put a sour taste in my mouth and I stopped trying to online date for 2 years, sorry this is long but it frustrates me to no end, hope I have some of you in my corner on this?? Thanks!

This site has been very disappointing so if there is a chance you'd like to get in touch with me the cryptic info is For Oh Ate 835 and then thirty five followed by Ninety Nine and I'd love to hear from anyone so I know this isn't completely worthless.  I'm open to many things so just run it by me whatever the case may be.  Livermore is where I'm currently located  I'd write alot more but this is so ridiculous that If I get any responses then I'll edit this.